Some, not all, marriages these days
seem to be unfulfilled after a while since the day the couple tied the knot.
This leads to an unhappy relationship between husband and wife and may lead
to a separation or a divorce. Even though marriage vows say ‘till death
do us part’ couples are separating all the time.
‘Before You Love Me’
is a helping hand to people before they marry, or are married but need a little
help.
This is an illustration of what can be done before your
relationship gets to the point where you want to wed.
When you prepare a table for you and another person to eat, you clear the
table then put on it only what is needed. Lets say if you were having fish
and chips, you wouldn’t put bleach in the cups to drink down with the
food would you? No that would be ridiculous.
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them.
The top of the chart in a relationship is love. If you are already married
you can still work on the relationship and make it great.
The truth is, you can change these feelings or attitudes you have. You do
want a happy marriage don’t you? Then these issues must be taken off
you like an old coat that is too tight, throw it away and don’t try
to squeeze into it again. What happened yesterday was yesterday’s
mess. Today is a new day, a new start, a new beginning for you. What you
have had is past experiences (or old clothes). They have absolutely no place
in your relationship (wardrobe) you now have with your partner. If you wish,
you can write down today’s date and say within yourself, “I
am a new person from this date (with new clothes that fit nicely).”
Not only would it taste
disgusting it may even kill the one who drinks it.
This illustration is to show you, not to bring anything unnecessary into
your relationship that would harm your today and your future. The table
is your relationship. Not only should you not bring the bleach to the table
but if it is there then you can remove it before someone drinks it and gets
hurt.
The bleach could be a miserable attitude, still loving your ex, constantly
arguing before you get married and anything that you have to deal with and
come to terms with, within yourself. You have to deal with this personally
because it is not your partners fault you have these problems. If it is
your partners fault then you both have to get it out
of your relationship and throw it away. If you don’t truly love the
person you are going to marry, question
why you want to marry