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Question 3
Where has the leadership and authority of the home gone?

Answer
It is obvious what has happened. There has been a subconscious transfer of leadership in the home. In most, not every home, the woman is the head of the home. Firstly, the mother has become the head of the home because there is no father to teach, guide and discipline the children. Where have all the men gone? Children need a balance in their life of a father (man) and a mother (woman).
Could the aggressive attitude of the ‘girl power’ ‘independent women’ mentality have driven men away? Some women have behaved disgraceful and have left the man to bring up the children by themselves.
Why does society always blame the man?
Don’t get me wrong, there are some single parents who have done a very hard but a very good job of bringing up children on their own. It is a very hard job for one person to do but I can’t praise enough any single parent who has accomplished such a hard task especially if they have had more than one child.
What is missing is male leadership. The problem is - for the last few years we have been plagued with ‘girl power’ ‘independent women’ and some people have mentally injected this disease into their attitude. Society has been convinced that women should take the lead and the man should stay at home washing the dishes, put on the marigolds and do the shake and vac and bring the freshness back. Hmmm?
Why is it seen in this day normal for a man to do these things but if you mention the words “can you cook” to some women, they turn into monsters and say “I’m not cooking”. Some turn away from men and become lesbians - as if that was some sort of solution. I can’t understand it when a woman says that she cannot cook. If she is single who cooks for her? When she has children who cooks for the children?
Some use vibrators or dildos as a replacement for a mans penis. Here is a quote about vibrators and dildos from a woman’s magazine that was free inside a family newspaper. “They’re always up for the job and don’t make you sleep in the wet patch afterwards. Say hello to our little friends...” If a man said this about an artificial sexual arousal device he would be seen as a sick pervert who needed help. Is this not the ‘girl power’ ‘independent women’ plague? Are you suffering from this illness? (Listen to K STONE’s x - rated discipline CD “Independent Women It’s Over” for the cure)
I’m all for women having ambition and becoming the best they can be in life, and I am also for male and female relationships to be successful. I believe that the male should be the head of the house and the leader in the house concerning all matters. Ladies don’t throw this away yet I haven’t finished. That doesn’t mean that the man knows it all. No. The woman’s opinion is vital as a partner and as a person. Two opinions are better than one not so good opinion. Maybe the man takes the woman’s advice on something and at another time the man sticks to his own opinion. If there is not a leader and a submission to an opinion then there will be arguments. So whether the man is wrong or right he has to make the decision and the outcome will be seen.
This definitely does not mean that a man should look down on a woman as if she is inferior. No. The woman is the mans partner. Equal partner. The man is or should be the one to make the woman and the children feel safe and secure.

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Education
Education is what is needed though. Up to the age of 16 children are supposed to be attending school. After leaving school at 16 what should they do? Even though they are having babies while they are still at school age, if they are not guided in the right direction, by the age of 21 they may have 2 or 3 children.
Like I said before everyone seems to want everything now, microwave style. At the age of 21 a lot of young people say they are going to start settling down or in other words start a family. Why not? Who has told them otherwise? Between the ages of 16 and 21 it is a strange time for young people because they are just coming out of childhood and they are not yet adults. They are somewhere in between.
It is hard to encourage this age group not to have sex as peer pressure is, maybe, at its strongest, and sex is almost always on TV, video, internet, music, etc. Some do not realize that if they do have sex with or without protection, the female may become pregnant and they may end up with a life threatening disease. They haven’t thought about nappy changes, cost of food, cost of nappies, cost of clothes, and all the other stuff that comes with the baby package. Then they have to feed and clothe themselves and pay the bills. If the female becomes pregnant some do not realize that having a baby is a 24 hour 7 day a week for at least the first 3 years, occupation.
Between the ages of 16 and 21 there has to be continuous promoting of other things apart from sex for this age group. Also promoting or constant advertising of what this age group would have to do and what they would have to give up to look after a baby should be shown. No more partying traveling etc. if they are all alone. It amazes me why the government has not done this. They know advertising works.
Look how many adverts there are on the TV. All companies and individuals that advertise should be held responsible for how they advertise. Does a partially naked woman or sexual innuendo have to promote cars, yogurt, settees, mobile phones, alcohol, well absolutely anything? This kind of advertising, however tame you may think it is, can register in your mind. You don’t believe me? Why around the year 1999 were people of all ages greeting each other on the phone and in person saying, Whazz uuuuupp? See you know what advert I’m talking about don’t you? True.
I believe for this age group that promoting of such things as finding the gift inside of them and developing it, traveling, helping others, helping to guide them achieve their goals, sports and social activities should be encouraged as a positive alternative than having sex. Know who you are first before you create a baby that knows nothing. Once you know who you are and you love yourself then you can teach your offspring to know who they are and love themselves. Such a mentality can create a happy home.
We must realize why some of the young people plan to have babies so young. It is because some of them are not getting the right method of guidance and they cannot see anything else in life apart from getting happiness from having babies, which they will soon find out that it really is not easy at all. Crying babies at 3 o’clock in the morning and dirty nappies does not sound like fun to an unwilling mother or father. Surely this can wait until the young people have got to know who they really are and about their partner - then get married. A partner of the opposite sex is definitely needed then the two can educate and bring up the children. It’s easier when someone else is there to help.
As I said before, this way may not be easy (depending on the individual) as the teenage to 21 age group maybe the most rebellious, and, it is a difficult time for them and their parents.
Society needs to turn back around with the leadership in the right order. Leadership has been twisted around so long in an amazing way that males are joining in the ‘girl power’ ‘independent women’ plague and becoming homosexuals (following fashion?).
Well, this is what I believe has happened to society. I truly believe that if education does not change this generations situation around, then a tragedy certainly will.

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Question 4
What can be done about this generation and can it possibly change for the better?

Answer
Don’t worry about it changing for the better because it certainly will. Its not as easy as that though. It can change through two main ways. The first option, which I hope this one will be used, is education. The second option, well it can be called an uncontrolled option, is disaster! Whether it is war, a catastrophe, a death of someone who is highly honoured, or death on a mass scale, or earthquakes, this usually brings about change in your world. You only have to look back in history. Just after wars and earthquakes, people seem to humble themselves and change for the better, even if it is for a little while.